One of the core values that I push for in the work I do with athletes and even parents, is increasing their baseline optimism.
A handful of items factor into this, such as confidence, internal language, resiliency and confidence.
I mention this in my book, but when I get the usual question of “what would you have me do?” After having a conversation with someone who knows I work with athletes, I provide a simple but effective, everyday tool.
If you are an athlete, you are likely working out at least multiple times a week, and if you are living a “normal” lifestyle, maybe once a week. But this can also be done while you are bushing your teeth, yet, it is found to be most effective after accomplishing something.
You go to the gym, there is a mirror, you get into your car after a workout, there is a mirror, you get back into the house after walk around the block, there is a mirror. What we identify and tell ourselves in this mirror, matters.
Looking in the mirror, and identifying:
- Where you feel good, after a workout
- How good you look with a shirt full of sweat
- Where you are seeing improvements
- How good it feels to speak greatness into yourself
- How it felt to push yourself
- and so on
Not only builds confidence over time, but changes your automatic thoughts to be more positive and optimistic. Remember, optimism has been researched to be a key factor in keeping an athlete not only focused in hard times but keeping physical performance at its highest for longer periods of time.
Try it for 2 weeks and see what’s changes, it will be worth it!
Interested in the work I do? Intrigued by the content I post about athletes? Let’s connect and chat!
Email:
Malique@trailblazer-therapy.com
Phone:
(913)390-3711
Website:
Www.trailblazer-therapy.com

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